Last Christmas our two kids opened something like twenty presents between them, and by Valentine's Day we couldn't have named half of them. What they did remember, in a lot of detail, was the morning at the aquarium when a ray splashed our daughter's sleeve, and the afternoon our son printed a lopsided green dinosaur he'd designed himself and carried it around for a week.
So this year we're leaning into experience gifts for kids, the kind that give a child something to do and usually someone to do it with. Here's what has worked in our house and for the parents we swap notes with.
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If your child loves |
Try this experience |
Rough budget |
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Climbing and running |
Climbing gym intro or trampoline pass |
$20 to $40 |
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Animals |
Zoo, aquarium or animal encounter |
$25 to $60 |
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Drawing and crafts |
Pottery painting or a kids art class |
$25 to $50 |
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Cooking |
Kids baking class or a family bake day |
$0 to $60 |
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Building and tech |
Robotics workshop or 3D printing at home |
$30 to $250 |
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Quiet time at home |
Movie night, library date, craft afternoon |
Under $15 |
What Are Experience Gifts for Kids?
Anything your child gets to do rather than keep counts. A pottery class does, a zoo membership does, and so does a Saturday with Grandma where your kid gets to plan the whole thing from breakfast on. Plenty of families still wrap a little something to open (swim goggles in a card for lessons is a classic), and that's fine.
We were curious whether the science backs up the feeling, and it seems to. A team at UCLA Anderson found that experiential gifts did more for the relationship between giver and receiver than material ones, and a follow up study in Humanities and Social Sciences Communications traced it back to gratitude and the memories these gifts create.
How to Choose an Experience Gift That Gets Used
We've definitely given experience gifts that never got used. One was a climbing voucher our son was a year too young for, and another expired because every free weekend clashed with soccer. Four questions would have caught both.
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Check |
Ask yourself |
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Age and stamina |
Can the child handle the length, noise and rules? Climbing gyms and escape rooms often set minimum ages. |
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Real interest |
Would this child choose it on a free Saturday? |
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Adult load |
Who's driving, who's staying, and who covers parking and snacks? |
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Schedule |
Can you move the date if someone gets sick, and does the pass expire? |
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TIP If the gift is for a niece, nephew or a friend's kid, offer to drive. A voucher that comes with a ride gets used far more often, because the parents don't have to find yet another free afternoon. |
Experience Gift Ideas by Type
Outdoor and Active Outings
Our high energy kid is happiest when there's something to climb or conquer. A beginner session at a climbing gym was a huge hit for his eighth birthday, and ninja courses and snow tubing have gone over just as well with his friends. We'd book the shorter intro session the first time, though, since a kid who's exhausted by hour two won't remember much of the fun.
Classes and Skill Builders
One class costs a lot less than a full term and tells you pretty quickly whether an interest is real. Our daughter was sure she wanted ballet until she tried a single class and spent the whole car ride home talking about the pottery studio next door, which is where her next gift came from.
Museum, Animal and Event Days
We bought our first zoo membership after doing the math in the parking lot, and it had paid for itself by the third visit. With older kids a show or a ball game works too, once you've checked how long it runs.
Maker Projects to Do Together
Maker gifts are our personal favorite, mostly because the child ends up doing the work while you sit next to them and help when something falls apart. Plenty of public libraries now have maker spaces, and the Institute of Museum and Library Services has published a whole framework on how kids learn through making. Ask at your local branch whether they run free robotics or 3D printing sessions.
We ended up building a small maker corner at home, and it's been the gift that keeps coming back out. The first time our son printed something he'd designed on a starter toy-making 3D printer, he held it up, looked at it for about two seconds and asked if he could make another one in blue. With the X-MAKER JOY he picks a model in the app, changes it however he likes and has a toy to play with by the afternoon. Printing happens inside an enclosed box, so our job is mostly setup and admiring the results.
1. Pick one model together from the app library.
2. Your child changes the color or adds their name.
3. Print it and see what it turns into.
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WHY WE LIKE IT AS A GIFT: THE APP HOLDS 8,000+ READY TO PRINT MODELS PLUS AI DRAWING TOOLS, AND OUR KIDS STILL HAVEN'T RUN OUT OF IDEAS. SEE HOW OUR BEGINNER 3D PRINTERS FOR FAMILIES COMPARE BY AGE. |
Experience Gifts for Kids by Age
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Age |
Strong fits |
Keep in mind |
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1 to 3 |
A music class or a morning at the petting zoo |
Keep it short, nap time always wins. |
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3 to 5 |
A puppet show, a farm visit or baking at home |
Enjoys a clue card or handmade ticket. |
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6 to 9 |
Cooking class, skating, STEM workshop, first 3D prints |
Likes having a say, so offer two options. |
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10 to 12 |
Escape room, climbing, pottery wheel, design projects |
More excited if a friend comes along. |
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13 and up |
Concerts, workshops, bigger maker builds |
Ask before you book. |
The CDC recommends offering even preschoolers a small number of simple choices, and in our experience asking "aquarium or trampoline park?" gets a much bigger reaction than announcing the plan.
Inexpensive Experience Gifts for Kids
• Our park crawl: three playgrounds before lunch, then ice cream.
• A library date, with a book they choose and a muffin after.
• Backyard camping, which our kids rate above most hotels.
• A You Choose Day where every stop is between two options you're fine with.
None of these cost much. The American Academy of Pediatrics makes a similar point about play, saying a parent's time and attention count for more than expensive toys.
When to Choose an Outing and When to Choose a Maker Gift
Choose an outing when:
• Your child wants one big day to look forward to.
• You can go along and handle the driving.
• The interest is brand new and worth testing once.
Choose a maker gift when:
• Your kid is the one who turns every box into a robot.
• You want something that comes back out every weekend.
• Winter where you live makes outings hard.
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WATCH THE FINE PRINT Read the small print before wrapping. One pass we bought had blackout days over every school holiday, which we only noticed in December. |
How to Present an Experience Gift
Kids want something to rip open, even when the real gift is a day out. A homemade ticket works, and so does a clue hunt that ends at an envelope. When we gave the 3D printer, we printed a tiny fox the night before and taped it to the box, and for the first five minutes nobody cared about anything else.
Then get a date on the calendar while everyone's still excited, because open ended vouchers have a way of sliding into a drawer and quietly expiring.
Conclusion
Most of what our kids still bring up from past birthdays is something they did, so start with what your child already loves and get a date on the calendar.
And if you've got a kid who's forever building things out of cardboard and tape, a home 3D printer is one of the rare presents that turns into a new little project every weekend. The X-MAKER JOY runs around $239, and you can see the rest of the lineup on AOSEED's family-friendly 3D printing platform.
FAQs
What are experience gifts?
They're gifts you do rather than keep, so think classes, outings, shows, memberships or a planned day with someone the child adores. We usually start with whatever our kids have been begging to try lately.
What are some ideas for experiences for kids instead of presents?
We'd start with one cooking or pottery class, zoo tickets, or a night camping in the backyard, which costs nothing and still gets talked about for weeks.
What is the best experience gift for children?
Honestly, whichever one fits your particular child. Our animal lover would take an aquarium visit over concert tickets every time, while our builder would rather spend the afternoon on a maker project. If your child would pick it on a free Saturday, you've probably found it.
What are the top 10 experience gifts?
It changes a bit every year, but the ten other parents mention most are zoo or aquarium days, museum passes, cooking classes, pottery, climbing, a live show, camping, a theme park, a maker or 3D printing project, and a whole day with a favorite grown up.
What are some good activity gifts for kids?
Anything your child does instead of watches. Baking, painting, coding and swimming all count, and so does robotics or 3D printing at home. For a hobby they've never tried, one trial class before a full course will save you money.
What are some inexpensive experience gift ideas?
A library date, a nature scavenger hunt or a one on one breakfast costs very little, and many libraries run free kids programs.
What are some good experience gifts for a 7-year-old girl?
Go by what she's into rather than what girls her age are supposed to like. Our neighbor's seven year old picked a 3D printing afternoon over a spa day, which surprised everyone but her. Pottery painting and skating are good bets too.
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Further reading
Art Gifts for Kids: Supplies, Kits and Ways to Turn Drawings Into Objects
Gift Ideas for Boys Who Love to Build, Invent and Take Things Apart
Experience Gifts for Kids: Activities, Classes and Maker Projects to Do Together






